So… what now? I wonder aloud, looking upward, arms outreached in desperation. He certainly isn’t as jealous and possessive as your run-of-the-mill crab, which I had always attributed to the fact that he wasn’t a Cancer in the first place, but a Gemini. While he does possess a handful of notable Cancerian traits (i.e., devotion to home and family, a need to be in a relationship, a fondness for cooking, etc), he has far more twin qualities: extremely communicative, freedom-loving, active, a tendency toward aloofness, just to name a few. A wise Aquarian tree hippie friend of mine likes to remind me that “the Sun always shines.” And while he’s not wrong about that, I take exception to this particular case. Turns out, on June 21 st in his birth year, the Sun entered Cancer exactly four hours and twenty minutes before my eventual love made his appearance in the world.īut seriously folks, although my oft-referred to “Cancer cusp” man is technically a crab, I’m having a difficult time grasping that fact (so is he.) While it could simply be that I so desperately want him to be a Gemini, the proverbial shoe just doesn’t quite fit. Upon further investigation several months relationship postmortem, I uncovered the cold hard truth: he is, in fact, a Cancer. In fact, my cusp often chuckled that if there was a talking event in the Olympics, the two of us would bring home the gold. And boy howdy, we got along beautifully, particularly – I believe – because my own natal chart is weighted in air which, among other positive similarities, means we’re both communicative. Good thing: my fiery Aries Sun is quite compatible with airy Gemini, but not so much with its watery Cancer successor. Every ephemeris I had ever consulted, which admittedly wasn’t a staggering number, reassured me that my better half was indeed a Gemini. Actually, I considered myself pretty darn lucky: he was born on June 21 st, on the cusp of Cancer. You, but you don’t really want to go…” ~ Katy Perry, “Hot and Cold”įor eight years, I was in a live-in relationship with the love of my life: an amazing Gemini man. We fight, we break up, we kiss, we make up You’re wrong when it’s right, it’s black and it’s white You’re in then you’re out, you’re up then you’re down If working together, these two could be an unstoppable team as long as they stay in their own lane and play to their strengths.“‘Cause you’re hot then you’re cold, you’re yes then you’re no Simultaneously, Scorpio may overlook some of Virgo’s achievements or criticize them for prioritizing making friends before getting ahead at work. These two signs can clash when it comes to career because Virgo doesn’t have the time or energy to give Scorpio all the praise they need. Virgos sometimes pursue multiple paths at the same time. Virgos are ambitious, but with their tenth house of career in Gemini, they’re much more focused on solving problems and having their hands in everything. Virgos, on the other hand, are much more chill about their goals and how they’re being perceived. As far as work ethic, they need to do things their own way and can stay very fixated on one project until they reach burnout. Scorpios want to be stars and can sometimes be divas. So to them, career and status is everything. Scorpios have their tenth house-the part of the chart that describes one’s public image-in the sign of Leo. Here's our full breakdown on Virgo and Scorpio compatibility. Interestingly, even though mutable Virgo values independence while Scorpio could stay handcuffed forever, as a Washington Post Love Match Reading explains, the signs' placements give them an "intense karmic bond." So, once a Scorpio is in, they’re in it for life. They’re extremely forgiving with their partners (often to their detriment!) mostly because they hate change. In fact, once Scorpios are in a relationship, it’s almost impossible for them to get out of it. There’s nothing sweeter to them than being with someone who allows them to be their whole self-flannel Snuggie and all. As for a Scorpio partner, their extreme passion and loyalty means that relationships are their comfort zone. To be loved by a Virgo is to be loved by someone who will move a mountain to get to you and then insist that you solve everything their way. To understand Virgo and Scorpio compatibility, first we need to break down how these two signs navigate love separately.
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